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Above 03-06-2012 11:31 AM

General crossdressing, transgenderism and other genderbending
 
As a transgendered woman, I found this forum a bit lacking in genderfuckery, so here you go.

Despite being in the system since November-ish, I haven't spoken to an actual gender therapist. Making some headway now though as I'm being referred to a psychosexual centre. Hopefully I can get the ball rolling in transition now.

What're your experiences with breaking gender barriers and related stuff?

Unknown Soldier 03-07-2012 03:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Above (Post 1162503)
As a transgendered woman, I found this forum a bit lacking in genderfuckery, so here you go.

Despite being in the system since November-ish, I haven't spoken to an actual gender therapist. Making some headway now though as I'm being referred to a psychosexual centre. Hopefully I can get the ball rolling in transition now.

What're your experiences with breaking gender barriers and related stuff?

When you say your're a transgendered woman, are we talking a man that wants to live as woman or a woman that wants to live as a man? I'm not really upto scratch on these issues but just thought I'd ask the question.

Dayvan Cowboy 03-07-2012 06:48 AM

Back when my hair was really short last year, I used to bind my chest and pretend to be an 11 year old boy. people fell for it haha, i got this weird feeling of accomplishment.

otherwise, psychologically I've been told that I'm nearly genderless. A lot of girls ask me why I'm not involved in a lot of high school drama, and I personally think that it's because I don't actually feel like I'm competing with every girl around me,like the other girls admit to doing. I never really was a tomboy or a girly girl when I was little, either. I was into kind of gender neutral things like science and space exploration when I was very young. I never cared for really girly things or really boyish things. when I tell people this it kinda weirds them out but they nevertheless agree that my observation about myself is correct.

Sansa Stark 03-07-2012 07:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Unknown Soldier (Post 1162813)
When you say your're a transgendered woman, are we talking a man that wants to live as woman or a woman that wants to live as a man?
I'm not really upto scratch on these issues but just thought I'd ask the question.

She's a woman born into a male body.

DoctorSoft 03-07-2012 09:02 AM

I'm not going to lie, I've always wanted to cross dress, but never really got the chance. Also sometimes I wish I were more androgynous looking, and less defined as male.

TheBig3 03-07-2012 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by DoctorSoft (Post 1162871)
I'm not going to lie, I've always wanted to cross dress, but never really got the chance. Also sometimes I wish I were more androgynous looking, and less defined as male.

How busy are you exactly?

James 03-07-2012 09:16 AM

I get those little "Heh, I bet it's cool to be a girls...." thought, I reckon everybody gets them right? I am male however, but I have respect for the transgendered.

Above 03-07-2012 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Paloma (Post 1162836)
She's a woman born into a male body.

Pretty much this. As for my status right now? I'm in transition.

ThePhanastasio 03-07-2012 10:11 AM

I played Frank N. Furter for around two years in a Rocky Horror Picture Show shadowcast; now that's gender-****ery. I was a woman dressed as a man who was dressed as a woman. I really did enjoy various aspects of this cross-dressing process, including binding my chest and "stuffing".

CanwllCorfe 03-07-2012 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by James (Post 1162879)
I have respect for the transgendered.

As do I. One of my favorite musicians is!

I wore a girl's bathing suit when I was around 3. That's about as close as I've come. I'd be up for wearing something like a skirt/dress in the right context, but I guess that's just a piece of clothing (and this is more about actual identity). Even then I would have nothing on the glam rockers from the 80s.


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