Originally Posted by Hermione

Manky and I got down in the chamber of secrets last night y'all mad?

Jk but he's at least smart enough to see I'm not as shallow as some bitches up in this birch
These lofty caricatures made up of a Hodge podge of false self conscious paper thin facades here are truly embarrassing for me to watch anymore, God forbid you have an actual personality that also stays constant girl and doesn't revolve on cutting people down to make yourself look good, this saccharine sweetness is nauseating, as if morals is a good trade for attention.
Blechhhh

This thread is wack tho sorry Manky but the body policing just strikes me as inappropriate and gross but I won't hold it against you but the people who defend this and act like it's okay to body police are gross human beings. Don't act like y'all are saints and think it's kewl to do **** like this when I get questioned for saying anything negative about men. It's a shame that CrazyVegn is banned because she also saw this disparity. And it just gets excused or someone bullies the person defending their opinion. This **** is just pathetic. Just like how I 'll call someone out on their be and everyone writes it off as "wanting attention" plllllzzzz of course because I'm afab it's called drama rather than discussion.

Manky tho I think you need to watch your choice of words,I feel that what you're actually trying to communicate your loneliness and what you think might remedy it but maybe just try talking to a lady like you talk to me, or such. You have to realise also how you appear when you use words like chubby to describe women rather than smart or funny is unkind and unsympathetic to the body issues we all have, you'd be surprised to know how many women suffer from an eating disorder, (me among them, I've had one my whole life) so when you use triggering language like this you make us not want to be genuine with you. I feel I know you well enough to know that was not YOUR intention but that is how you more than likely are perceived. This isn't an attack tho so everyone can stay off my dick for this cause I don't give a **** about your perception. I'm trying to help a friend.

Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife

I have a serious case of bitchy resting face. I can't even tell you how many times someone asks me "Are you mad?" "Are you ok?". Yes! I'm fine! This is just how I look dammit!

I just want to love everyone.




Hehe..but seriously. It's not just chicks who get intimidated by it. At least you look happy most of the time!

Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

Originally Posted by Pedestrian

This place has gone whole moron today.

Originally Posted by Pedestrian

This place has gone whole moron today.

Originally Posted by Mankycaaant

On a different note but same subject. I was supposed to meet up with a girl from Dundee. She's Irish, sort of cute and says she's in an 'open relationship' whatever that means.

However, what was niggling at me is how horribly racist and intolerant she is. Like, really bad.

So bad to the point that I genuinely didn't want to meet her in person for fear of what an absolute cunt she would be. That's the first time I've ever thought that about a girl.
I've had conversations before where it's like pulling teeth, but this just struck me as an alley I wouldn't venture down. For the first time in my life I put the moral high ground above what would easily have been casual relations.
Am I wrong? Or am I going soft?

Originally Posted by Mankycaaant

On a different note but same subject. I was supposed to meet up with a girl from Dundee. She's Irish, sort of cute and says she's in an 'open relationship' whatever that means.

However, what was niggling at me is how horribly racist and intolerant she is. Like, really bad.

So bad to the point that I genuinely didn't want to meet her in person for fear of what an absolute cunt she would be. That's the first time I've ever thought that about a girl.
I've had conversations before where it's like pulling teeth, but this just struck me as an alley I wouldn't venture down. For the first time in my life I put the moral high ground above what would easily have been casual relations.
Am I wrong? Or am I going soft?

Originally Posted by Burning Down

I think you did the right thing. If her beliefs/morals/etc clash with yours, you won't be happy and it won't last. Better to get out early. And open relationship means she has a boyfriend/husband or is dating other people and they are okay with her dating other people. So if you're not into that, don't get involved.

Intolerant people are the scum of the earth IMHO.