It's not a big deal. It's just telling a person what they don't know isn't something I am use to seeing as etiquette... not that it's a big deal.

poor guy, feelin bad for him.

sad this country has such a problem with accountability. someone always has to share the blame. wonder if he would have been arrested if he was a woman. something tells me no.

That's fine if you feel I'm rude and don't have etiquette but general etiquette does not equal the same as bar/club etiquette. So you can have a seat please.

Uh what's up with dudes buying girls drinks? I always return the favour because I'm not rude. It baffles me how some things go in other countries.

In america girls expect to be bought drinks. The worst part is that dudes do it. I always see these really desperate looking horny dudes buying the bartender drinks, that is ****ing crazy. Then tipping her for the drink she gave herself on their bill.

Yeah, when I was single, women who expected to be paid for all the time without ever reciprocating used to annoy the crap out if me. Fortunately there were plenty of worthwhile women out there who weren't like that.

A lot of women here have a sense of entitlement, that men should be throwing money and gifts in their direction, like their love has to be bought. Thankfully I'm not one of them.

I hear you, I wouldn't say girls here expect it as a rule of thumb but I've seen girls go up to lads on nights out, get the drink then fuck off. That's why I wouldn't do it, it's a shit tactic, there's no guarantee of her spending any time with you, she could just neck it and leave. I do buy drinks for people but not some nobody I've never spoke to before as a way to get talking to them.

One of my close mates has said before if she's low on money she'll just hang around desperate looking lads and get them to buy a drink, you could have a night out doing that.

But this is the man's fault for doing it. If someone came up to me and asked me if they could buy me a drink the answer would be a resounding yes.

I don't blame single women for keeping up with this activity. If I was a female, I would definitely use that to my advantage to go out without any money and always have a good time from stupid men buying me drinks.

Speaking of stupid men, I have a horrible story from the beginning of the summer. I was getting back into the club scene because I've been out of it for awhile. This girl asked this guy to buy her a drink and he laughed in her face and moved on. I felt bad for her so I offered to buy her a drink. I came back with the drink and she dipped off. I was expecting to talk to her but I know she's not obligated to stay and talk with me. Later on in the night. She has the nerve to come back to me and ask for a drink again but this time she also wants one for her friend. My stupid ass decided to buy them the two drinks but before I left. I told her that I wouldn't buy them if you didn't spend some time with me and at least dance with me for a little bit. She agreed. I went off and got the two drinks and got my money's worth this time around. She danced with me for about 20 mins before she pissed off.

chameleon thats rprostitution without sex lol


i explained in semi detail why women in general feel entitled mainly in their college and early-mid 20s. buying women drinks is a big part of that. ive seen women whine on the internet before about men expecting something from them after buying them a drink. lol they are so far gone down entitlement road that they are brainwashed and blinded. these ppl never have healthy relationship without change.


ive rarely bought drinks for other at the bar. its not in my nature to blow money like that. i will say it does work tho my one friend in particular has boinked girls he just randomly bought drinks. i dont do a random approach i wait til ive talked to them a little bit or danced with them then buy some drinks and try to get wild