His best friend was teasing him about it in front of a couple of his friends (including me) and he just admitted it.

with an odd proud grin i remember, he had no remorse about it.

James is basically saying there's a grey scale depending on hotness. Ugly 2nd cousin? Nah. Hot auntie? It's no big deal.

There we go. A hypothesis we can all believe in.

Just how hot are we talking about? And does it matter how often you see them? She'd have to pretty hot if she gives you presents in person every Christmas/birthday. And if a parent has been absent from the child's life for most of the child's memory does that make it okay for a hate****?

I don't think parents is ever okay really, even if my mother was Julianne Moore and I had never met her it's just too much.

What about step siblings? There's no blood relation involved but it would still be pretty weird if you've been raised alongside them for years.

I think that's absolutely fine and weirdly hot.

I have a really good looking cousin. But hell no, I don't think of him sexually.

I know somebody who was in foster care and he impregnated his carers kid. That was weird.

i agree :p:

same with hot step moms, they're fair game.