ya I basically share James' view. but then again flirting online or even text in general has always seemed so weird to me. like I can rarely enjoy sexting. its all just so.. cringey to read as a bystander. but I guess the point of that thread is to talk about how good people look so wtf do I know (nothing that's what)

I'm not trying to bang her for f*cks sake.

This is a community. I want to feel a part of it. If folks respond to the music I post positively it makes me feel good. If I post a pic and someone says something nice I feel good.

WWWF posted a very sweet pic. Why shouldn't I respond in kind?

I'm the exact same man, can't do that **** with a straight face.

James,sweetheart I like you.Im just saying this because Im going to challenge your thinking.Don'tbe offened.

Maybe its not for him, could be cause he likes to flattr.
Also though, flirting outside your marraige is natural. I said flirting not cheating guys chill.
I lets him know hes still got it ,it lets her know shes hot.Victimless crime.It can be very erotic in a relationship to know your lover is coveted.It makes you appreciate your spouse.

I don't believe all the dudes on here that leave comments are just doing it to make people feel nice. Not in a million years.
In reality I think it's something to do with power or status. Though I could be wrong. Maybe guys just want to know that in one way or another they ended up in a hot girl's thoughts. Sexual attraction is all about attention really.

And you have a vow of celibacy going because. .....

I can't speak for everyone but I do it just because. The pics are there to comment on, I don't see a difference between telling the men they have a cool shirt or picture versus telling women something I physically like about them in a pic. If I was attracted to men I'd comment on their physical appeal also. I've also commented on the pictures of the ladies that had nothing to do with them.

What?

Ya, because as a 54 year old male who, because of medical issues, can't get a hard on without the help of a pill, I hope to reach out via an innocent comment on a community board, in an effort to have a romp with a woman I've never met, and who lives thousands of miles away.

Sounds like a plan.

Dude be quiet. You're blowing my cover minus the dick thing. :shycouch: