jibber

i'd just talk it out with him, but the thing is, you have to ask yourself how much of a problem it is for you. i've been with guys that were really insecure, and didn't trust me, although i never gave them any reason not to. peronally, i have no patience with that, relationships have to be built on trust, and i can't deal with constantly feeling like i have to reassure someone about why i'm going out with them. just talk it over with him, he might not even realize how much he does it. hopefully it works out

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MobilizeTerror

Yo man, back off! I saw her first!

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Thrice

Hope it works out.

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winterslastbreath

he doesn't realize he does it until after he does it. it's like he doesn't even think about what's going to come out of his mouth. typical guy right?
but i agree... i hate reassuring myself.. it's exactly how you said it-i give him no reason to not trust me. that just gets me 10x more frustrated.
i guess you could call it a problem, but it's not like it happens every day or anything. just sometimes it gets really bad and i feel like ripping my hair out. lol
thanks though, talking will probably help a bit.

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Thrice

Relationship
Trust
Trusttrust
Trusttrusttrust
Trusttrusttrusttrust

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Lew Harrison, who looked like an anarchist with his red eyes and fierce black beard, had been writing furiously in one corner of the room. "That's good—happiness by the kilowatt," he said. "Buy your happiness the way you buy light."

Rockafella Skank

You forgot trust.

Thrice

ha ha...

i meant

relationships are built upon trust

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Lew Harrison, who looked like an anarchist with his red eyes and fierce black beard, had been writing furiously in one corner of the room. "That's good—happiness by the kilowatt," he said. "Buy your happiness the way you buy light."

winterslastbreath

trust maybe?????

the part that even frustrates me more is that i trust him with my heart.. i could trust him with everything. then he questions me when i hang with one of my guy friends. teenage love, sometimes i ask what the use.

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Thrice

Thanks for all the advice coming my way Nikki

BTW...Awesome Signature I love that by Brand New!!

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Lew Harrison, who looked like an anarchist with his red eyes and fierce black beard, had been writing furiously in one corner of the room. "That's good—happiness by the kilowatt," he said. "Buy your happiness the way you buy light."

Rockafella Skank

Yeah, I came to the same question myself and I decided that unless it's serious (and I mean really serious) love then it's not worth it at that young of an age. I'll be turning 20 in less than a month and I've only had one serious girlfriend.