Men in your 20's, is a kid a deal breaker?

OccultHawk · 08-04-2015, 08:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

Don't want kids. Ever. Can't stand them.

I hear ya. About how old are you?

Key · 08-04-2015, 08:32 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

I hear ya. About how old are you?

I'm 24.

fiddler · 08-04-2015, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

How old is the kid or in other words how old were you when he or she was conceived?

Just turned 8 in July.

Ninetales · 08-04-2015, 08:47 PM

im no where near mature enough to handle being a parent. I do dumb things on the regular that wouldn't be suited for child in tow. maybe one day but ya I doubt a chick with a kid would want to date me let alone the other way around.

OccultHawk · 08-04-2015, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

I'm 24.

I usually have my doubts when people say that when they're so young. When people say that at 35 then I believe it.

But I don't know you.

OccultHawk · 08-04-2015, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by fiddler

Just turned 8 in July.

So you were like 20-21 then? That would've felt completely devastating to me at that age. Do you actually live with your kid? Are you married to the baby mama? Did you want her to get an abortion?

OccultHawk · 08-04-2015, 09:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninetales

im no where near mature enough to handle being a parent. I do dumb things on the regular that wouldn't be suited for child in tow. maybe one day but ya I doubt a chick with a kid would want to date me let alone the other way around.

I respect that.

fiddler · 08-04-2015, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk

So you were like 20-21 then? That would've felt completely devastating to me at that age. Do you actually live with your kid? Are you married to the baby mama? Did you want her to get an abortion?

Somewhere in that range. Yes, I have sole custody of him. No, I'm not married to her. No, I didn't find out until after he had already popped out. I was overseas at the time.

grindy · 08-04-2015, 11:15 PM

I don't like being around children, so yes.
(I'm 28.)

fiddler · 08-04-2015, 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by grindy

I don't like being around children, so yes.
(I'm 28.)

That seems to be a common attitude and I think a lot of it comes from the general lack of upbringings of other people's children. I could be mistaken, of course, but it seems like to me part of the appeal factor dropping for having kids or not having kids is their overall behavior. Kids can be well behaved, but it depends on how you raise them. I mean sure, they're messy, and loud, but those are some of the best memories you're ever going to have. It's a pleasure and honor to see your kid grow up and know that you had some part in hopefully making them a good person and functioning adult.

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Ninetales Music Addict Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: livin wild Posts: 2,179	im no where near mature enough to handle being a parent. I do dumb things on the regular that wouldn't be suited for child in tow. maybe one day but ya I doubt a chick with a kid would want to date me let alone the other way around.