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Old 02-18-2017, 10:56 AM   #43051 (permalink)
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i can send you a video of me sucking a dick you know, to help you with your research, let me just find a dick to suck first
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:19 AM   #43052 (permalink)
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Pansy, couple questions for you before I start giving you advice as if I know your situation..

-How long has this been going on?
-Do you find yourself bored with content and moving on to harder stuff?
-When was the last time you were with someone?

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Remember, pansy, DWV is a vegan and therefore probably an idiot.
Meat eaters trying to argue against veganism come off about as intelligent sounding as religious people debating atheists.. there isn't an argument for it other than, I like meat.
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:28 AM   #43053 (permalink)
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Pansy, couple questions for you before I start giving you advice as if I know your situation..

-How long has this been going on?
-Do you find yourself bored with content and moving on to harder stuff?
-When was the last time you were with someone?

You can PM me if you want.




Meat eaters trying to argue against veganism come off about as intelligent sounding as religious people debating atheists.. there isn't an argument for it other than, I like meat.
i used to watch porn every now and then for years but it's become an everyday thing since last december i think.

yes, i find i get bored with things very quickly and stuff that used to get me off does nothing for me now.

also the last time i was with someone as in, in a relationship, was months ago and if you mean the last time i slept with someone, that was late december i think.
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:41 AM   #43054 (permalink)
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watching porn daily is weird? if so then ive been weird since i was 12
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:44 AM   #43055 (permalink)
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It's good that you picked up on it now because that's definitely not healthy sexual behavior. If you can't just stop cold turkey, you should start by working on self control, watching realistic porn, or just getting off without the porn stimulus. Bombarding your brain with that much porn can rewire what arouses you and may make it difficult to be aroused by future partners. Food for thought, I don't need an answer, but do you still get morning wood?

Nofap and just doing your own research can help you more than any of us giving advice because you know exactly what you're going through. Best thing I can tell you is to stay busy and try to recognize when you have urges because youre bored vs horny. You can also try the 5 minute rule, if you get the urge try doing something else for 5 minutes and see if the urge goes away. I'm sorry I can't give you anything more solid.

You might find this interesting (~6minutes goes into some brain stuff):


@Qwerty - it's not as bad if you are in a relationship and have stimulus other than porn and your hand.
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:46 AM   #43056 (permalink)
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I only jerk off about once or twice a week.
Do I have a problem?
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:48 AM   #43057 (permalink)
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It's good that you picked up on it now because that's definitely not healthy sexual behavior. If you can't just stop cold turkey, you should start by working on self control, watching realistic porn, or just getting off without the porn stimulus. Bombarding your brain with that much porn can rewire what arouses you and may make it difficult to be aroused by future partners. Food for thought, I don't need an answer, but do you still get morning wood?

Nofap and just doing your own research can help you more than any of us giving advice because you know exactly what you're going through. Best thing I can tell you is to stay busy and try to recognize when you have urges because youre bored vs horny. You can also try the 5 minute rule, if you get the urge try doing something else for 5 minutes and see if the urge goes away. I'm sorry I can't give you anything more solid.

You might find this interesting:


@Qwerty - it's not as bad if you are in a relationship and have stimulus other than porn and your hand.
i definitely jerk off a lot of times because i am bored and not even really horny

thanks for the advice, i'll watch that video before going to bed tonight
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:50 AM   #43058 (permalink)
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@Qwerty - it's not as bad if you are in a relationship and have stimulus other than porn and your hand.
havent been in a relationship in two years and havent had sex in probably like 16 months so i mean
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:54 AM   #43059 (permalink)
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i feel like if you're in a relationship having sex everyday is normal especially in the beginning of the relationship

but jerking off every single day sometimes when you're not even horny but just bored seems weird to me
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Old 02-18-2017, 11:57 AM   #43060 (permalink)
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havent been in a relationship in two years and havent had sex in probably like 16 months so i mean
You should def watch that Ted talk..
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