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06-24-2021 08:01 AM |
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Originally Posted by Tristan_Geoff
(Post 2177009)
So my bandmate turned out to be a sexual predator/groomer so all my friends cut him off just today
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Not commenting on this particular case, which I obviously know nothing about... But in general, alongside welcome and long overdue attention to the realities of sexual abuse, there's been a very real outbreak of paranoia about any kind of age gap in relationships following #metoo, at least in North America. If you're in your mid 30s and your partner is in her early 20s, people love calling you a "groomer" and "pedophile".
When deep-seated puritan anxieties about sex meet HR-friendly liberal moralism meet pseudo-Foucauldian babble about "power imbalances", things get pretty ugly.
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