Rape - Whose Fault Is It?

~~Cuthbert~~ · 07-13-2013, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by CrazyVegn

^Not enough life experience, son. :p

Oh you.

misspoptart · 07-13-2013, 05:29 PM

Honestly I don't have much left to say about the topic. It seems like those who have chosen to comment on my posts are really more interested in bashing men who they consider to be below them because they made the mistake of misreading a woman's social cues. Also how any of you can claim to know more about it...unless you've been raped or have raped... I think you're just playing the holier-than-thou card. Yep... I am a dumb slut and he was a complete criminal. Is that what you want me to say? :eyeroll:

Burning Down · 07-13-2013, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by misspoptart

Honestly I don't have much left to say about the topic. It seems like those who have chosen to comment on my posts are really more interested in bashing men who they consider to be below them because they made the mistake of misreading a woman's social cues. Also how any of you can claim to know more about it...unless you've been raped or have raped... I think you're just playing the holier-than-thou card. Yep... I am a dumb slut and he was a complete criminal. Is that what you want me to say? :eyeroll:

Your posts sort of insinuated that you think it's usually the victim's fault, in general not just in your situation. Perhaps I misinterpreted but it doesn't look like I'm the only one who did.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 07-13-2013, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

Your posts sort of insinuated that you think it's usually the victim's fault, in general not just in your situation. Perhaps I misinterpreted but it doesn't look like I'm the only one who did.

Not having a go but how did you come to that conclusion? 'Usually' the victim's fault?

Anyway seeing as we were discussing rights to anonymity earlier in the thread, this seems a good a place to post as any. Manchester Evening News are at it again:

Picture released of man wanted in connection with rape of woman in Manchester city centre - Manchester Evening News

This lad's reputation is now fucked forever guilty or not.

According to one prominent feminist piece of shit who I can't be arsed Googling at the minute this will do him good because she reckons men benefit from being falsely accused of rape. (That's if it is false.)

djchameleon · 07-13-2013, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

Your posts sort of insinuated that you think it's usually the victim's fault, in general not just in your situation. Perhaps I misinterpreted but it doesn't look like I'm the only one who did.

No, her posts are just about her situation and how she feels like she was partly responsible not that it's the victim's fault.

This is typical behavior for someone that has been raped to feel guilty about it and second guess what they could have done to change the situation.

Burning Down · 07-13-2013, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

Not having a go but how did you come to that conclusion? 'Usually' the victim's fault?

Anyway seeing as we were discussing rights to anonymity earlier in the thread, this seems a good a place to post as any. Manchester Evening News are at it again:

Picture released of man wanted in connection with rape of woman in Manchester city centre - Manchester Evening News

This lad's reputation is now fucked forever guilty or not.

According to one prominent feminist piece of shit who I can't be arsed Googling at the minute this will do him good because she reckons men benefit from being falsely accused of rape. (That's if it is false.)

That's not my own opinion though. It's me trying to understand someone else's opinion.

CrazyVegn · 07-13-2013, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

Your posts sort of insinuated that you think it's usually the victim's fault, in general not just in your situation. Perhaps I misinterpreted but it doesn't look like I'm the only one who did.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 07-13-2013, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Fluffy Kittens

Not having a go but how did you come to that conclusion? 'Usually' the victim's fault?

Anyway seeing as we were discussing rights to anonymity earlier in the thread, this seems a good a place to post as any. Manchester Evening News are at it again:

Picture released of man wanted in connection with rape of woman in Manchester city centre - Manchester Evening News

This lad's reputation is now fucked forever guilty or not.

According to one prominent feminist piece of shit who I can't be arsed Googling at the minute this will do him good because she reckons men benefit from being falsely accused of rape. (That's if it is false.)

god i hate feminists. head on over to reddit's /srs section to find complete idiots like that. they dont want equality.

anyways with poptarts situation i think i am understanding better than some people. ive been in situations like that. if you go home with a girl it kinda expected you are gonna get laid. i would be lying if i said i hadnt tried to persuade a girl from having sex in similar situations. if she outright says no thats one thing but if she gives you the 'im not sure' vibe but is still kissing you, then you **** her without explicit consent then you're technically a rapist and i dont think thats worthy of ike 25 yrs in prison

djchameleon · 07-13-2013, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by 216

god i hate feminists. head on over to reddit's /srs section to find complete idiots like that. they dont want equality.

anyways with poptarts situation i think i am understanding better than some people. ive been in situations like that. if you go home with a girl it kinda expected you are gonna get laid. i would be lying if i said i hadnt tried to persuade a girl from having sex in similar situations. if she outright says no thats one thing but if she gives you the 'im not sure' vibe but is still kissing you, then you **** her without explicit consent then you're technically a rapist and i dont think thats worthy of ike 25 yrs in prison

Other people understand, they just choose to sit up on their high horses and pass judgement regardless of the situation because everything is black and white for them.

~~Cuthbert~~ · 07-13-2013, 06:27 PM

I just read all of misspoptart's posts in the thread again, no way did she insinuate it's the victim's fault in general. She only spoke about herself ffs

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07-13-2013, 05:29 PM	#122 (permalink)
misspoptart gimme gimme Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: istanbul Posts: 897	Honestly I don't have much left to say about the topic. It seems like those who have chosen to comment on my posts are really more interested in bashing men who they consider to be below them because they made the mistake of misreading a woman's social cues. Also how any of you can claim to know more about it...unless you've been raped or have raped... I think you're just playing the holier-than-thou card. Yep... I am a dumb slut and he was a complete criminal. Is that what you want me to say? :eyeroll:

07-13-2013, 06:27 PM	#130 (permalink)
~~Cuthbert~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: The Black Country Posts: 8,827	I just read all of misspoptart's posts in the thread again, no way did she insinuate it's the victim's fault in general. She only spoke about herself ffs