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The point I was making wasn't "are you getting bites on the fishing pole?" But the fact that you defaulted to that speaks volumes.
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Haha, not defaulted. I just thought that whas where you were trying to go
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Also, it sounds like you're pretty much leaving your plans open for your ex. She must have been pretty important to you, yea?
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She still is. But I'm not leaving anything open for her. If I would I wouldn't be keeping my eyes open for opportunities with other girls. No really, there's plenty of reasons for us to get back together. We've been together for a reason and that reason is still there. We also split up for a reason but these reasons seem to fade now we have taken some distance from eachother and found time to think and talk things over.
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Is that why you talk about her constantly, and inform us that she is, indeed, your ex? Why don't you refer to her primary role, as a friend? The way you talk about her reminds me of the way a high schooler boasts about the first time he got a hand job. Again, I'm not trying to pass judgment, I'm just making observations.
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Nice metaphor
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She's just important to me. And I could call her by her name (Fleur) but that wouldn't make things much clearer now would it? I could call her 'a friend of mine', but that doesn't say enough. I could call her 'my best friend', which she is, but then I have to explain she's female. I could call her my best female friend, but she's not just my best female friend, she's my best friend.
So... Any ideas?
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Overall, it's just little things like that, that speak more than things said in defense. I think it's fun to try and sort out the disparities, but if I'm making you uncomfortable at any point, let me know and I'll stop straight away.
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No you don't, but thanks for saying that. I will open my mouth when I feel bad about it.
I know exactly what you mean man and I can't really explain why you're wrong. It would be very handy if there was someone here who knows me well in real life to help me explain the way I work.
You're going to have to take my word for it when I say: Don't compare me to what you know already, because I am not comparable to anything or anyone. Sometimes it seems I defy any rule there is when it comes to social stuff. Which is sort of explainable. I am in the end autistic and I do work a bit different in a lot of cases. The differences are often subtle like this one. I seem to be like 'some of those guys', but then I am not. But I cannot explain that to you. Just wait till you get a picture of me and my very nice new girlfriend, whenever that happens
There's one thing I should probably add: I hear every time people meet me that I'm really different, nicer actually, less strange, in real life.
So... I'm not sure where that comes from, but I guess it's a good thing. I don't disappoint.