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Originally Posted by Dirty
yeah i'm glad another guy will be there. hopefully he likes sports although judging by appearance thats unlikely. i do have a thing for the one girl that always hangs with them, but like i was saying shes not old enough for the bars for another few weeks so im just trying to mess around with a random girl who isn't fat or hideous. I'm not a fan of the bar we are going to, its more of a dance type place. I may make an early exit and head to my usual spot where there's just drunk socializing since that's where i meet pretty much all girls.
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I don't think this will work out too well for you. You'll most likely end up having to leave early like you said at the end of your statement there.
Personally, I love dance type places because there are always some chick that doesn't mind grinding up on me while I stand there in place. I mean I do like to actually dance but most girls these days in those type of bars/clubs they just want to grind their ass up on you and all you have to do is sway side to side. So easily, no dancing skills required. Who am I to turn down some dry humping on the dance floor.
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Originally Posted by RezZ
Good luck Dirty.
I have a question for whomever wants to answer. My biggest problem with new girls Im meeting taking out/going on date with and such is I never know how fast they want to move. Obviously being a guy I dont mind moving real quickly and theres definitely a small portion of girls that do as well. (usually they make it quite obvious) The rest though confuse me, as I have dated one that took over a month and others that I would suggest it within a couple days of meeting/going out with them and get no clear answer.
Now I am not really shy, Ill try mostly anything with anyone I please, but I take care in this because as any guy knows some girls that are pushed to fast think your just a pig.
Whats funny to me is that just because I want to have sex/hookup with you doesn't mean I dont actually like you. I cant help that Im a 20 year old male with a strong libido.
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I don't know how good you are at reading body language but that is where I take my cues on whether to go for it or not. When it comes to making the first move towards sex/hooking up.
The thing with body language is that sometimes it can be way off base though and I've had it backfire on me a couple of times. I used to think that when girls would clear their hair and put it behind their ear that it was a sure sign there were a bit into me. I was proven wrong on a couple of instances.
I clear sign that actually works though is if you are talking to her like say at a bar stool or w/e and she's sitting down. If her legs are facing in your direction, she's a bit interested in the things you have to say and is more comfortable around you but if she is facing you and her legs are turned the opposite way then you know she's not really feeling you/comfortable with you yet. That's just two signs to look for. Also, if she gets a bit touchy feely with you, randomly brushing up against you then you know she's probably into you.
Also, make it clear that you hooking/having sex with them doesn't mean that the relationship can't go further. It's all up to how the both of you feel about it.