djchameleon

I don't think it's just a female thing though. I think it can easily be applied to men as well. It's really a problem with society nowadays. Majority of people are afraid to be themselves for fear of being rejected by society's standards. There is also a wanting for people to fit in regardless of if they view themselves as fitting in or not it still happens.

This problem alone doesn't belong to women but maybe you just notice it more in women where as I notice it more in men but it's pretty equal.

The last part of your post talking about how women are sexualized. Men are sexualized as well but of course not as much as women. There is also this annoying thing that I hate to see in movies/tv shows. The whole ugly average joe type guy gets the hot babe as a girlfriend or wife. They never show it the other way around or barely I should say.

oh yeah I almost forgot to mention that you need to get some new friends that aren't as uptight. I too like to be silly in public at times.

I remember one time I was at the mall and I needed to pee really badly so I put my hand between my legs and started yelling "I have a potty emergency" just like Wakko from the Animaniacs and my friend was pulling me towards the bathroom holding my hand like a little kid. It was hilarious.

Another time I was at the mall and asking random people if they like Tom Jones. After the younger one are like who? I started doing the carlton dance and singing "it's not unusual to be loved by anyone"

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