Originally Posted by zevokes

whoa now... just because i said i've had some interesting offers does not mean i was implying any knowledge whatsoever of bdsm. that is entirely not my thing. i have great sex and hurt myself enough outside the sac that i'm well enough stimulated to have no need of it. to me, bdsm is like drugs. and i'm not going to use another person like a drug, and i'm sure as hell not going to let them use me like one. no offense, but the psychological framework involved in the participation of things like that is, to me, unhealthy. sorry if that grinds your gears, but surely, being a dominatrix, you are prepared for the existence of this type of mindset.

all that being said, there's good money in catering to peoples' strange desires, so all the power to you. we are, after all, given only a capitalist system to create a survival schema inside of.