Midomi is a website that can identify nearly any unidentified song you play on your computer. Midomi also claims it can identify the title of song if you hum the tune or sing some of the lyrics into a computer microphone. I've never tried humming or singing the song, but Midomi does a spectacular job of identifying the song title, the artist and album of any MP3 I've played on their server. I've managed to re-tag dozens of unidentified MP3 songs without proper ID tags in my digital music collection using Midomi.
Midomi may not be able to help you since you seem to be recalling mostly the details of music video for the song, but it's worth a try if you remember the tune or a few of the lyrics.
Link to Midomi website: Search for Music Using Your Voice by Singing or Humming, View Music Videos, Join Fan Clubs, Share with Friends, Be Discovered and Much More For Free! - midomi.com