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Originally Posted by Ass napkin ed
So you don't call having sex w/ women when you've already come out of the closet to some friends pretending to be straight, b/c I do.
I already reached out, he has literally gone into hiding so I left it alone & like I said as far as I'm concerned this "friendship" is void, I'm just surprised of how little I could know about someone that was such a close friend.
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I can't explain that - I was once engaged to someone I knew was a little bi-curious but he chose to cheat on me with a male escort as a way of coming out of the closet. I was a little disappointed and confused as to why he would ask a woman to marry him if he was into dudes, and my feelings were a little hurt, but I didn't chastise him or anything. (Ok, so I got a little mad because he cheated, but now I see that I should have seen it coming!)
Oh, that's kind of a drag. Maybe he felt intimidated? He might come back around eventually. Or maybe he felt guilty for not telling you? There are so many possibilities, but only he knows what's going on in his head. I'm sure he didn't mean to hurt anyone, and I'm also sure that he didn't mean any malice with his supposed deceit.
Just give it time. If he comes back around, that's fine. If not, that's ok too. Some people have different ways of coping with things (even things that others don't fully understand) and that's ok. Might as well give the guy some space; he seems pretty mixed up right now. Then again, what do I know?
What does anyone know?