Originally Posted by Burning Down

Thanks. Communication really is the #1 tool when it comes to improving sex.

Then if you know and agree with what I said, why did you make that post? Thrusting away and expecting that she'll come from that like you will doesn't work.You also can't just have a rigid MO during foreplay and sex either. The only way to really know how to get a woman off is by talking to her and getting her to tell you what she wants from you and what she likes.

Some people are also just anorgasmic - not able to achieve orgasm due to a variety of factors (most commonly being on antidepressants or using other drugs consistently).

If Slow Groove and his girlfriend have been together for awhile, then sure it's about time they have a conversation or something about what they like. If they've only been together for like, less than 6 months lets say, then that's also a good time to start the communication.