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Originally Posted by ladyislingering
I can definitely sympathize with you there.
I'm slowly healing from wounds that have been acquired from terrible relationships, even from 5 years ago. People can really fuck you up, and they don't even care.
I have learned that what others have done to me/put me through does not define me, and though some things still burn me up a little, I'm healing. Slowly but surely, I'll be alright.
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They really can, and it really is the worst when they make you believe that you were the one responsible for their bull****. I'm surprised I made it out of that relationship alive. I sometimes struggle with the idea that what I did during the relationship doesn't define me, nor does his warped ideas of who I am as a person mean anything besides the fact he projected his own insecurities onto me.
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Originally Posted by ladyislingering
Just remember, everyone who has ever hurt you will die eventually. Hopefully before you, so you can laugh at them.
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LOL yes, but even better he married the ratchet faced bitch he rebounded with and got ugly and gross looking. He used to be hot as ****, a better looking Cillian Murphy.
He's truly awful, I'm glad I finally deleted him off my friends list because he used to stalk my relationship status and whenever I had a break up he'd start talking to me again, but the last time I shut him down and saw him for the pathetic piece of trash he is. Still is rough to deal with, I loved him and thought we were soulmates but clearly that's bull****.