I think it's a conversation you should have with your girlfriend of 15 years, I know I'd feel pretty hurt if someone I was with for that long just walked out, but on the other hand I think there are ways to make it work.
Seems like a pretty big deal, one of those "once in a lifetime" ones that you don't always get a second chance to take so I can understand your internal conflict.
As to what I would do... that's a tough one really, if I could make it work and I had some kind of idea of what my employment would look like afterwards it wouldn't be so hard, but this isn't one of those decisions I think you can make hastily.
|