Scarlett O'Hara

I believe there is to an extent. I have always had a lot of male friends and some of them had tried to kiss me or make a move and most of the time I denied it. I had a really great guy friend at the hostel next to mine and we used to study Geology together. One night we had meet up for drinks (he'd been there drinking for a while), I said hello but I ran into another guy I knew for 5 minutes. When I joined him again to play pool, his friends kept having a go at me for talking to another guy. I had never known before that situation that he was keen on me.

A year or so later we met at a nice restaurant. We had a great time, he paid for dinner and he tried to make a move again. I felt really bad but told him honestly that I wasn't interested. Turns out he borrowed money from his friends to be able to play for the dinner and hopefully I would be his gf. I really wish I had given him a chance. I look back now and he's in Australian, has a high paying job (mines, hence Geology major) and a nice gf. If he and I got dating, there is a possibility he wouldn't be in the same powerful position.

This has happened to me more times than I can count. I nearly always disappoint guys because I'm too picky.

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