I don't know the OP or anything about them. But under the presumption that they are maybe somewhat struggling with depression, I don't see why it's difficult for others to wrap their head around why kissing a lot of people is not such a great thing, or why it would maybe even make one feel worse.
Meaningless encounters with perfect strangers can be fine, if you are comfortable with that just the way it is. Not if you are looking or longing for something with meaning though. And if that is the case then getting laid really wouldn't help matters at all.
Anyway, as I said, I don't know the OP. I'm probably way off the mark. But if that is the case, it's not a such a strange way to feel.
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