ive been on both sides of the field ive been bullied and been the bully (not a cruel one though)
And though a bully can make your life a living hell i think confronting your bully can teach you an important life lesson
imo the real damage a bully does is more emotional than physical, Punches hurt but living in fear is what really gets you
i successfully dealed with bigger bullies than me by turning their posee against them, i would ridicule them with words that made his own friends laugh at him, yea you might be stronger than me but you ain't smarter
One bully i painted as a ***, i would tell him "What's your obsession with me? i don't give a **** about you but you're always bothering me, you in love with me or something?"
Even most bullies fear social pressure so if you can figure out how to use that against him you could beat him without throwing a simple punch
doesn't work in every case though, i once had to threaten a bully with a knife
Good thing he backed out cause i was gonna stab him for real.
Last edited by Black Francis; 04-08-2014 at 05:28 PM.
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