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Originally Posted by hate paper doll
Apparently I hurt my boyfriend all the time because I don't express my feelings in a way that makes him feel loved. He is very expressive and I'm not, and he feels like I only compliment him or say "I love you" when he coaxes it out of me. He also believes that the only reason I love him is because he loves me, if that makes any sense. I feel like utter sh!t right now.
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I don't think I've ever seen a woman with this kind of personality.
I can't even fathom it. It's usually men that are emotionally distant (if only outwardly). You're a lovely girl but I assure you, being affectionate toward your significant other and helping them realize how beautiful they are to you, and how much you appreciate them is a completely wonderful feeling.
Just look at him one time. Have you ever noticed how beautiful he is? All the strange habits he might have, everything from the way he speaks to his handwriting, or the dumb way he laughs at silly things.... I've never seen the guy but I know from experience that some people (especially people that we love) are so beautiful; some people are just the walking aura of sweetness. Check it out when he's not looking; you'll see what I mean.
There's a million ways to show our loved ones how much we admire them, and how important they are to us. There's nothing more detrimental than neglect. There are some people who aren't naturally affectionate or expressive, but they
certainly can be.