Originally Posted by Vanilla

Here's the thing. Do you guys ever feel like the girlfriend/boyfriend you date/have dated never really matches what you really want from a partner? Do you often settle for less? I'm not really meaning superficially (looks wise) so much but you can definitely include that in your response.

For example, you have a guy that had all the fantastic traits of being a gentleman or fitting your desires in a partner, but is average in the sack. Do you settle?