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Old 10-02-2014, 08:10 PM   #127 (permalink)
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women have body hair it's not that big of a deal so get over it you chauvanistic fvcks.
First of all, body hair is pretty gross on guys too. Body hair is just very iffy in general. I don't always mind it on a girl, but there are certainly caveats. If you're an Irish girl, and you have Irish girl hair, shave. Irish body hair is not attractive on anyone. Just because it's something that's stressed more for women doesn't mean that it's chauvinistic to not like hair on a woman's legs.

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I am really scared. I don't know how my folks are going to react. They've said things that are transphobic before and it really concerns me. I remember my mom's girlfriend saying something about me to the extent of "so what, you can't handle the fact that you're a faggot so you have to dress up in drag and fvck lesbians instead???" She was wasted at the time but still. I'm really worried. My family and the short list of friends I have here are literally all I have and it would emotionally bankrupt me if my fam bailed on me. I'm in a really uncomfortable way right now and I really need any and all advice anyone here can spare because I can't fvcking deal right now. I can't.
Maybe I'm being prejudiced, but the fact that your moms are gay has got to count for something. Even if they're not particularly supportive, I doubt they're going to be THAT hypocritical to not be at least vaguely accepting of alternate lifestyles. They might act like pricks, but I highly doubt they'd "bail" on you. I imagine they'd come around eventually.

And besides, you drink far too much for it to just be social. I always kind of assumed you had something weighing on your soul for you to be as tanked as you are all the time. I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if stressing over this whole cross-dressing thing was part of the reason for your drinking. If so, then keeping it inside is the last thing you should do. Just for your liver if nothing else.
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