yeah the way music works for me usually is that at first i may not like it much, but i cant just rule it out because the first time i heard it it didnt appeal to me. If i did that i would not like most the bands i like now. Music grows on me, not sure if its the same for all of you. I would definetely not like phish if it werent for listening to them quite a bit before i ruled them out, now they are one of my favorite groups of all time