With all things, there's a certain wisdom to balance in the situation. If you really love them, then of course you should stand by them when they are going through dark times. But at the same time, you have to entertain the possibility that they are beyond your help. It's a horrible situation without a clear answer, and I really hope you manage to get through everything alright. You're a real-life hero, you know, and you've saved and touched a great deal of lives.
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