That's a tough question to answer. Looking at it technically, you're not really obligated to be his guardian angel, as he's an adult and is accountable for his own mistakes. But at the same time, it's a horrible feeling when someone gets hurt or even dies, and you believe that there was something you could have done to help them beforehand. This sounds like it's a very frustrating and draining situation for you, and I wish that I could offer more than just vague advice, but in the end I know that you'll find a way through it. Sometimes you just have to do what you can with what you have.
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