If they've led a good life and you've had a chance to spend time with them, there's no reason to feel guilt and no shame in not feeling great sadness. The reason I was so broken up when my aunt died was that I'd only known her for eighteen months.
I'm really bad at consoling and cheering up people in general.
If you don't mind me asking, have you lost someone?
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Everybody's dying just to get the disease
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