Originally Posted by Trollheart

Would it not make more sense, if you have a good idea who it is, to email or text or even meet him and warn him off, that you know who he is and you'll be watching? Threaten him that you'll go to the cops if he doesn't back off? Do I have a clue what I'm talking about? Sounds ****ed up though, really.

At least tell the husband (or wife) of your suspicions, so that when he meets them again the husband can be on his guard. You never know when someone might just decide to, I don't know, stick a knife in him and walk away....? Forewarned, as they say, gives you two extra arms.