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Originally Posted by OccultHawk
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I mean I’d cut my hands off before I hit a kid or a woman but I’m still hopelessly ****ed up and have no business spreading my DNA so I haven’t and won’t.
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Same, and the stories about certain family members don't quite ring true for me and how I seem to operate, but I have a temper and a certain disposition that I honestly wouldn't trust to put children through. I'd like to think I'd never strike a child, and I'd certainly make it priority #1 and everything else last priority, but I'm not willing to take the chance and will simply choose to never have any.
I have many reasons for not wanting kids, but not wanting to put my child through that moment of having to change their view of their parent from a caretaker to a rabid animal to be feared is absolutely the biggest. That **** is dehumanizing. I don't know quite how I feel about light spanking, as it's oddly ritualistic, but when you get that hit to the face from someone who's just angry and lashing out there's no equivocation on how unacceptable it is.