While it's true that the way you are has a lot to do with how you grew up, and while it's true that one should probably often show some understanding for people who are under pressure, it is also the case that people use "this is just who I am" as an excuse to not even try to improve. And it annoys me to no end. There are people close to me who I'd like to confront about this, but I'm too much of a non-confrontational chicken to ever do that.
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