I feel embarrassed to bring this up but I have to get it off my chest - my bf yells at me and I f*cking hate it. It's not constant, and it's not belligerent, but he always raises his voice if we argue, and this morning he woke me up by yelling at me for not cleaning something up before I went to bed last night, then said "I'm leaving" and stormed out of the house before I could even react.
My parents were abusive to each other and me/my siblings, and there was constant yelling in the house. So when my bf raises his voice, I dissociate and completely shut down. I feel like an ******* for not standing up for myself but I just freeze up. Idk what to do. My bf knows all of this about me, and while I will raise my voice to match his sometimes, I never yell. I find it completely unattractive and childish and disrespectful.
My bf returned home after about an hour (I made breakfast for him while he was gone like some doting ****ing housewife) as if nothing happened and he doesn't understand why I'm upset. He feels that he was justified bc that's just how angry *I* made him.
I'm grossed out. He's an idiot.
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