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Old 09-06-2019, 04:45 PM   #3404 (permalink)
jwb
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Originally Posted by The Batlord View Post
My personality kind of precludes random hookups and I never meet anyone, man or woman, who I click with on any meaningful level so no I am not motivated by tail as it would be pointless. I literally can not remember the time I met a woman who I thought would be wooed by my charms without me having to turn on some cringey "game" **** and pretend to be an entirely different person.
more sour grapes

I know you'll give me **** for pointing this out, but everything you don't have you seem to come up with some rationalization why you shouldn't bother with it.

It's a defense mechanism. I've been there, I'm not trying to shame you. Just maybe try putting yourself out there a bit more and don't take rejection or failure as something to be avoided at all costs. If you never fail or get rejected then you're aiming too low.
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