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Originally Posted by elphenor
she wanted to walk down the street (from our hotel) to this thing
I'm like I can't, I'm exhausted, but you go ahead I'll wait
she gets seriously stand-offish and won't even let us drive off until I'm like "you know what I've said yes to everything, I came out here, I've paid for everything, I don't need a ****ing reason if I say NO I mean I'm not doing it..."
it wasn't the best choice of words but I feel like I get taken advantage of otherwise
so she called me an ******* and stormed off
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Just wondering-- at what point did you decide to drive to this thing down the street? I assume you offered to drive her after you said you were too tired to walk, or was it
after she became standoffish? You definitely should not have said what you said; one should not offer to pay for things or do something for someone if they're going to immediately guilt-trip them for it the second they're displeased with them. (That kind of thing is why I still to this day am so hesitant to accept anything from anyone. Thanks dad)