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Old 11-21-2020, 04:09 PM   #646 (permalink)
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In identity and presentation, where on a spectrum of masculine to feminine do you fall? If high femme is (+)10, high masc is (-)10, and androgyny is 0, where would you place yourself? And does that placement remain static or is it fluid for you?

Bonus question:
Top, bottom, or switch?
1st question: God this is such a complicated subject for me. It's always been inextricably tied to my current level of confusion (as it's always varied wildly!!!!) about my sexual orientation AND my current level of body dysmorphia. BUT purely in terms of presentation, I'm probably around.. a 7?? I don't really wear makeup (or heels, or anything overly tedious like that) aside from eyeliner, undereye concealer and tinted lip balm. My clothing style alternates between Cozy Gender-Neutral Grandpa, Chaotic Femme and Vaguely Tomboyish. I've always wished I could pull off the whole androgynous & flamboyant Tilda Swinton/Villanelle thing but I just don't have the bone structure for it (so I tend to settle with more of a tomboyish thing instead, on days I feel compelled to do so)
Now as for identity I. Do not know!!!! I recently decided to stop overanalyzing it so much because I was driving myself crazy.

Bonus question: Switch
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