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Originally Posted by Guybrush
It's complex for sure and so sad that we create all these mind prisons for ourselves. Misogyny could play a part, I'm sure.
I hope you'll pardon such a personal question, but have you had many sexual encounters with men who consider themselves heterosexual?
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More often than not I’ve avoided them. Especially when I knew the ‘I was too drunk to know what I was doing’ game was about to be indulged in. Maybe my experience however was soured at an early age by a man who played the active role with me only to exclaim after the act “Now I must get me a real woman” Told him to f*ck off in no uncertain terms.
I have a very vivid memory decades after the event of a man I hitched a ride home with. I had no intention of seducing him but somehow I ended up being his first male/male encounter. Not before or since have I experienced so an intense an episode. I’ll spare you the details but simply put somehow every part of our anatomy became as sensitive as the usual focus of male erotic experience. He returned interstate in the morning with me thinking I’d never see him again. Turned up at my door some years later with his fiancé suggesting a three way encounter. Now that’s one man I’d never want to share (unusual for me) so as kindly as I could I sent them away. SIGH ! WILT! SWOON !
One fairly consistent aspect of straight men’s behavior is if you actually get them into bed they more often than not will be the one who ‘bites the pillow’. An experience I had with four AFL footballers (VFL in those days). And no, don’t ask for names.
For those of you not familiar with Australian Rules football AFL stands for Australian Football League & VFL for Victorian Football League.