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Originally Posted by Urban Hatemonger
There`s nothing selfish about asking because there is no guarantee that the other person would say yes to it.
I`d look at it like this , what would not asking gain?
If I was facing losing someone then I wouldn`t really have much to lose by suggesting what you say.
At least that way i`d have a straight answer & be able to move on with my life.
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ok phew
i seriously thought i was gonna be a total bitch if i asked him to hold out & wait for me
technically right now were "on a break" because were both majorly stressed out & just needed some space which is why i have doubts about what his answer would actually be
& hes one of those guys that has high expectations & doesnt even really believe that i care about him for the sole fact that we rarely (never is a better word) see each other
so i jsut think if it comes down to him waiting another year & a half till i get my butt outta here or if something happens where our communication is cut off, hes just gonna say screw it & not even bother
& i wouldnt blame him
ok im rambling now, im sorry
