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Originally Posted by jackhammer
Not a chance. I can give furniture orgasms just by sitting on it  |
You could make a living out of that
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Originally Posted by Blue
To me, above all else, sex should be a mutual connection and experience. I don't see it as a "trade of orgasms" or anything of that nature because I think that misses the underlying intent. It's a mutual form of expression and passion. I think so much of it is about communication and the overall mood and atmosphere.
I don't like the fact that a lot of people just see it as an opportunity to get themselves off, because to me, that's the furthest thing from what it's really about. I guess it helps that I personally enjoy pleasing, and I enjoy listening and paying attention to my partner to see what is best for them.
I won't go into too much detail in this post about what specifically I like, dislike and what not, but I think it's all the little things that make the sex good. You can't just thrust away for 15 minutes and hope you do your job; you have to pay attention to small details, use your imagination and keep it interesting. You have to really explore the other person, whether it be with your hands, finger tips, lips, tongue, whatever. You have to really listen to the other person, and see what makes them tick because everyone is different. You have to be very responsive, because that person will give hints, even simple through body language or breathing, to what they like.
I also personally feel I'm quite open, and have no problems being adventurous about it, but would never push anything on the other person that they wouldn't want because I respect their wishes; it is their body after all, not mine. As long as it doesn't involve some form of bodily waste, I'm probably willing to go with it. If nothing else, it will provide me with some new, interesting experience.
I think I have more to say on this whole matter, so I'll post again soon, but that's all that came to my mind at the moment.
Edit - Also, just in case anyone has any ideas, I'm not a woman.
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Bold = lol.
That's just the perfect way to sum up how I feel, you have a way with words blue. It's all about respecting your partner (if you're in the right maturity range) and comprimising and being genuinely interested in pleasuring them. That's where incredible sex comes from. And from this you can actually learn a lot and gain valuable experience, I mean it really should never be boring.
Do you all think it's bad that I want it like ALL the time when I'm with someone? I feel like a boy sometimes. It's not that I want it to dominate a relationship but I'm a passionate person and sex is a really great way for me to express myself...amoung other things such a designing a beautiful outfit.
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Originally Posted by SydMM
I think girls who masturbate are disgusting. Maybe it's a double standard, but I think it's more of a guy thing. Lmfao. It suits them better somehow. But I love pleasing a guy just because of the looks he is capable of giving. And from those, I find it enjoyable. Not only that, it is a sort of give and take situation. In the end, I love when a guy just lays on top of me. I find it comfy and sexy. |
Ah..are you sure you're male? I think female masturbation is an incredibly natural process and if you want your girlfriend to be confident with her bits its a key way to do it. I could kiss the person who evented the vibrator.
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Originally Posted by djchameleon
actually they do
vanilla people have sex of film and think it's the kinkiest thing in the world and it's oh so taboo
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I really can't take you seriously with that damn avatar!
Haha ok if you want to think I'm a Vanilla girl that's fine, but you havn't been inside my head so you really don't know anything about my likes love.