i posted this in some other thread, but it seems relevant here.
anyway, here is my two cents. how well do you want to know a guy before you have sex with him? if you clicked on some level before he wanted sex, maybe he felt like that was enough. i know for me, if i met a girl with a comparable interest in music to myself i would be ready to bed her inside of an hour...and yes, i would even try to pursue more of a relationship if we continued to have things in common. i don't see anything wrong with sex that happens quickly...and i think with a little foresight it is easy for a girl to spot the type of guy that is only interested in a one night stand. trust me, guy personalities are different enough to be able to distinguish at least that much.
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