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Old 02-08-2010, 09:28 AM   #31 (permalink)
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I basically agree with you, Vanilla. Kinda. I'd like to meet a girl and go on a couple dates and she plays hard to get. But girls are too skanky now. And that's no fault of anyone's, and not even a case where fault should be assigned. Girls should be able to bang what/who they want. But then don't think that females are going to be kept up on a pedestal and worshipped and treated like royalty when you all act kind of slutty now. P is no longer hard to get, so what incentive do men have to act crazy chivalrous? Men have always been easy, and we've delt with it. Now its your turn.
Just one explination, though.
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Old 02-08-2010, 10:03 AM   #32 (permalink)
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or even better, and i'm POSITIVE i'm not the only guy who's had this line of crap thrown at him. 'why don't you open up more? / it's like talking to a wall' which is normally closely followed by 'geez stop whining / grow some balls / i don't want to hear your problems'.
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Old 02-08-2010, 02:05 PM   #33 (permalink)
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i posted this in some other thread, but it seems relevant here.

anyway, here is my two cents. how well do you want to know a guy before you have sex with him? if you clicked on some level before he wanted sex, maybe he felt like that was enough. i know for me, if i met a girl with a comparable interest in music to myself i would be ready to bed her inside of an hour...and yes, i would even try to pursue more of a relationship if we continued to have things in common. i don't see anything wrong with sex that happens quickly...and i think with a little foresight it is easy for a girl to spot the type of guy that is only interested in a one night stand. trust me, guy personalities are different enough to be able to distinguish at least that much.
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Old 02-08-2010, 05:32 PM   #34 (permalink)
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It's natural for males to be more sex-orientated than women. As the female of the species (generally) tends to be less concerned with sex, it is necessary for males to actively seek it. After all, the only logical reason to have sex is to reproduce. If both sexes retained a natural modesty then the human race would be in competition with Pandas in terms of laziness.

However, some of us men HAVE evolved away from our Primal instincts and take more solace in finding a partner that we are compatible with rather than something warm to empty our glowing ballbags into.

But it must be said that for every male prowling the clubs for a quick shag, there is a short skirted female sitting at the bar waiting for desperate **** to buy her a drink. It's all a game. You've just got to find the right players.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:21 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Why are guys so disrespectful to women these days?
Because they are evil character assassins who spew bitter vile hatred towards every woman that is more successful and attractive than them creating a never ending cycle of which no man should ever be unfortunate enough to get caught up in?
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:33 PM   #36 (permalink)
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Because they are evil character assassins who spew bitter vile hatred towards every woman that is more successful and attractive than them creating a never ending cycle of which no man should ever be unfortunate enough to get caught up in?

FYI - when you use those words together you need to use the "vitriol" also. You just have to.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:36 PM   #37 (permalink)
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i think the fact that most young people are now being raised by mass media more than their working parents plays another big part in the typical social roles people play. the modern obsession with celebrity also plays a big factor into that as well and helps perpetuate the conflicting roles people see for themselves and expect from others.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:32 PM   #38 (permalink)
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Again you are treating all men the exact same way. I understand how it could be frustrating to be meeting men who all turn out to be this way, who all happen to be looking for one thing but we're not all like this. Really there is no more to this than you happen to be meeting the kind of guys, or happen to be attracted to the kind of guys who are this way.

Theres alot of them around but there are alot of women around who behave the same way too.
Well I don't believe that they are all like that, as my ex boyfriend dated me first before screwing my brains out which was the best way to get me. I just like to know a guy wants me not just sex.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:51 PM   #39 (permalink)
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this is not a personal attack against vanilla at all, but I feel like threads like this is why girls get such bad raps on forums and the internets in general.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:52 PM   #40 (permalink)
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This seems to be a topic best not left for generalization. Not only does it depend from person to person, but also what kind of mood that person is in. Take me for example: I never made a very good slut. Sure, I got some interesting stories out of my experiences, but I'm more of a person that likes an intellectual connection to begin with. And that usually takes time. Don't get me wrong, though. I like sex. I like sex a lot. And sometimes I just feel like having sex with somebody. However, I've been having a problem lately with distinguishing which girls are suitable for my intentions. I've wasted a lot of time on ignorant whores, lately, I guess is what I'm getting at. I was mistaken. I thought they were worth a shit.

So can a be a cocky asshole? Sometimes. Not very often. Only when dealing with somebody that I don't think respects themselves enough to seek something more than a drunken hook-up.
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