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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali
Overall I don't think it's necessary for a man to know who he can best in a fight in order for him to be confident about himself. The confidence comes from knowing that when you are presented with a situation in which you MUST defend yourself and/or your family, you know that you aren't afraid to act, regardless of the outcome.
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Exactly. And thanks for bringing up the point about gaining humility too. That's just as important.
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Originally Posted by Paloma
I've been in plenty of them, for a large part of my life I did not control my temper, and some points I could get aggravated to the point I would snap and black out and not be able to control myself. This is very rare for me now, I learned to control that nonsense a while back. I'll only get irritated with people now, rarely ever angry.
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My problem is that for my whole life, I've internalized any anger I had toward others. Sometimes I took it out on inanimate objects, but mostly it's internalized. I feel sorry for the motherf
ucker that finally makes me reach my breaking point.