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Originally Posted by bogey_j
my girl left me for some singer-songwriter douchebag. I'm a musician too but this guy actually gets paid for his music
I hate that guy so much, it pisses me off. This cant be life
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bogey, I can understand you feeling angry because it is a blow to feel you weren't wanted as much as someone else was...and maybe it makes you think your music wasn't as good as his (?), and makes you question your judgement in picking people to be with.
However, would you want someone to stay with you (her second choice) if she really wanted to be with someone else? I think that given how she felt, the best thing she could do was to leave so that you didn't spend more of your life with someone who wasn't willing or able to devote herself to you.
I know of a couple who have 2 teenage children, and suddenly out of the blue the woman tells the husband, "I don't think I ever loved you," so they get divorced and she marries someone she met at work. Now THAT is bad. If she had left early on, it may have been much better for the man...though once there are kids, most parents never wish to negate them.
Of course, it would have been nicer if you had met someone who wanted to be with *you*...and so that's sad, bogey, that this didn't happen this time around. This *is* how life is, unfortunately.