bogey_j

my girl left me for some singer-songwriter douchebag. I'm a musician too but this guy actually gets paid for his music

I hate that guy so much, it pisses me off. This cant be life

Freebase Dali

That sucks.
Is it strictly the money or the fact that his music generates money?

thomasracer56

oh no.... i guess musicians seem to a simpler about them. i don't know. i can't explain but i CAN say that's too much bad luck, sucks.

TheBig3

He's a douche, he'll drive her off soon enough.

Do yourself a favor though, cut off contact with her.

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TheCunningStunt

Hm, maybe the musician thing had nothing to do with it. Maybe she liked his personality and thought the grass is always greener...

I hope some day she will get Chlamydia and realise she was wrong. Chin up

VEGANGELICA

bogey, I can understand you feeling angry because it is a blow to feel you weren't wanted as much as someone else was...and maybe it makes you think your music wasn't as good as his (?), and makes you question your judgement in picking people to be with.

However, would you want someone to stay with you (her second choice) if she really wanted to be with someone else? I think that given how she felt, the best thing she could do was to leave so that you didn't spend more of your life with someone who wasn't willing or able to devote herself to you.

I know of a couple who have 2 teenage children, and suddenly out of the blue the woman tells the husband, "I don't think I ever loved you," so they get divorced and she marries someone she met at work. Now THAT is bad. If she had left early on, it may have been much better for the man...though once there are kids, most parents never wish to negate them.

Of course, it would have been nicer if you had met someone who wanted to be with *you*...and so that's sad, bogey, that this didn't happen this time around. This *is* how life is, unfortunately.

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TheBig3

I'd be more religious if prayers and things were in this direction.

"Dear Father, please bless me in my virtuous drive toward peace and away from anger, and also give that heinous cunt the clap like a mother****er. Amen."

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TheCunningStunt

If she gets the clap now, I'd like to think it's because of that beautiful prayer.

Farfisa

Best thing you can do is remain indifferent, and hopefully just run into another chance for love.

mr dave

rather than play Dr. Phil for someone who doesn't give nearly enough details to do anything besides caress a bruised ego so here's an answer to the actual title question...

why are women so attracted to musicians? apparently it's because you can tell how a person is in bed by how they perform their music.

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