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Originally Posted by Lateralus
I definitely have more male friends than female friends, too. In fact I only have one good friend who is female, all the rest are guys. I get along with them way better. We share the same interests, like doing the same things... I live in a flat of only male friends. I dunno, I've actually always found it weird. Growing up I only ever played with my brother so maybe that's got something to do with it.
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Why do you think that is? You don't come off as a tomboy to me at all (Kayliegh does sorta) you're just not very posh, you still come off as very girly girl to me from the way you act, your voice and your taste for classy dresses. Maybe girls in your area like to wear more makeup and more glammy/revealing dresses and consider you unhip but nothing about you strikes me as unfeminine, you're just a more down to earth kind of feminine that's all. And I love you for it.
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Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife
You could be on to something there...I only ever played with my brothers too (mostly because my mom made us do everything together). Us and the neighborhoods guys would play football or kickball or go swimming or be doing some sort of sports all the time. I don't every remember a time when I played house or dolls. I loved sports though. I hope that if I'd grown up with sisters or as a single child I would have still been into sports, but who knows.
Typing this just now made me a little disturbed to realize that I automatically associated sports with guys. :\
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TONS of chicks play and enjoy sports so to me sports being just a guy thing is a totally outdated concept.
I do dislike the great majority of sports fans for being sexist alpha male douchebags though.
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Originally Posted by kayleigh.
@booboo yeah I ofcourse know that, I'm glad I come across as feminine then. But when I'm in male company I really am not. I know girls dont have to wear heels and skirts to be feminine but girly girls make a big fuss over stuff like that. I was also said to be the least romantic woman ever, and would rather greet my boyfriend with a punch on the shoulder and say "awrite mate" than a cuddle. Probably true.
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I dunno why, it's very common now to see girls in t shirts, jeans and tennis shoes these days, which I also consider outdated as a "masculine" trait. If you wear flannel, are growing a beard, pee standing up and have a desire to penetrate chicks with your penis,
then I'd have some concerns about your lack of femininity.
