That's very true we all persue the opposite sex with what we are physically attracted to in mind. A lot of guys love big boobs (I guess it's technically a fetish of it's own) and so they persue big boobed girls, well if they tell these girls that they have a thing for big boobs will the girls mind? Probably not because they see that as a normal guy thing and they have been socially conditioned to believe that their boobs are something that many men will desire, it's what they expect.
But what I have is NOT a normal guy thing, people like me are much easier to think of as sexual deviants and perverted, crazy even, people delight in mocking what they don't understand, including people with unusual sexual attractions and even though I don't consider my sexual attraction to bald girls to be weird at all, a lot of people understandably feel differently. And because most paraphiliacs are social outcasts at least when they are open about their fantasies, it's more common for women to reject them because they have been socially conditioned to believe such people are mentally disturbed. Shucks even modern psychologists don't have very kind things to say about fetishists.
Then again I AM mentally unstable but I don't think that is the cause of my fetish, I'm sure there are people with this fetish who are very well adjusted normal people, at least relatively because what is a truly well adjusted normal person anyway?
And you do have a point, would most of us be sexually attracted to our partners if they were another gender? Nope. Maybe it is shallow but that's basic human nature which serves a basic biological need.
Last edited by boo boo; 07-15-2010 at 05:39 AM.
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