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Originally Posted by baldy1138
Sinead managed to pull it off at a time when nobody was doing it, and she was a real oddity.
But she did have the advantage of being more of an artist, and having that whole mystical Irish image. And the media was much more fair to Sinead, at least before the whole Pope picture thing. When she first came on the scene, journalists wanted to understand it and explain her shaved head. Today, and especially with Britney, the prevailing brand of journalism is not to understand and explain, but to interpret in the most provocative way and support with any source who'll go on the record.
One thing Sinead and Britney do have in common: in the late 80s/early 90s, every woman with a shaved head "looked just like Sinead" even if there was no resemblance other than gender and lack of hair.
That's probably the most frustrating thing for an acomophile. People who aren't into it don't really even look closely or give much thought to a bald woman when they see one. There's either a knee-jerk "yuck" response, the "not everybody could pull that off" response (if they like it but don't want to admit it looks good), or a superficial comparison to some bald celebrity, which is like saying "they all look alike."
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The media always picked on Sinead for being weird and of course her baldness led to a lot of speculation that she was a lesbian, which ended up being kinda true. Maybe back then it was considered just a lesbian thing but today enough women do it that you can't really pin that kind of stereotype on it anymore.
I also hate the "few women can pull it off" response, how in the hell would these people know that? Do they see bald women often to make comparison? No it's just something they already had made up in their minds. From my experience any attractive women who shaves her head comes out looking
better, I can't think of any exceptions to the rule. I agree that it's because baldness has a weird way of emphasizing other features, the shape of a woman's head and neck, even ears, they are often distinct from how a man's look and thus these are just other feminine features. Features that are obscured by hair.
And yeah I hate how people now have to use Britney spears as the reference point for every f*cking bald women they see. Sh*t some people are so stupid they might point at a woman with alopecia and say she's copying Britney Spears. It's embarassing to be part of the same species as these people.
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Originally Posted by VEGANGELICA
Boo boo - why do you recognize and wish the pressure on women to have long head hair would stop, yet you seem happy to continue the pressure on women to shave their legs, saying that keeping body hair is like being a caveman? Why is pressure on women to feel bad about themselves bad in one instance but not in the other?
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I'm not putting pressure on you or anyone for not shaving your legs, all I ever said is that I prefer smooth legs and that's just my aesthetic preference, but one shared by many men that can't be avoided. You might be offended by that but you shouldn't care what I think and thus I don't care if people find bald women ugly just as long as they aren't total pricks about it which they often are.
I'm discouraging any woman from not shaving their legs if that's what they want that's fine.
I'm merely defending women who do choose to do it and
why they do it and
why men find it preferable and
why making yourself sexually presentable is natural, acceptable and common with both sexes.
In regards to the bald issue, I'm not discouraging any woman from keeping their hair, I accept most women love their hair and think that's fine. I just think hair as a feminine symbol is an overrated concept, but not an evil one that should be completely eliminated from society, I believe in freedom of choice. If you recall, I once made a thread about a website of environmentalists who were making a statement by shaving their heads and I was strongly critical of their "if you don't do it you're a bad guy" mentality.
On this issue I'm just challenging a lot of the ideas people have about hair and female baldness. It's not a campaign
against hair, just a celebration of an alternative look that doesn't get proper respect. And lets not forget that some women don't have a choice, women with alopecia are made to feel like deformed freaks and the media's attitude doesn't help.
Hypocritically you'll see a lot of ads and promos for charities like Locks of Love (which is fraud btw) which sends a rather mixed message, people act like giving alopecians wigs is like curing some kind of f*cking disease, yes it helps them with their self esteem but why is that? Because people are jerks who will mock someone even if they have a medical condition. Many people with alopecia are otherwise healthy individuals, it's not a life threatening condition (though it's sometimes caused by something that is), with the worst side effect being how people react to it.
And when I watch crappy talk shows like Tyra Banks give alopecians wigs and "sexy" makeovers instead of encouraging them to be themselves, I find it pretty sickening. If more women sported the bald look, alopecians wouldn't stand out so much and they wouldn't have to wear a wig if they didn't want to. That's not an attempt at a guilt trip or anything. But it's yet another reason I love women who embrace the look because it becomes empowering for every bald woman.
Sorry I'm veering off topic. But yeah. I don't oppose your choice Vegan, only the attitude you have with other women who choose the other option. I believe you can make a statement out of your hairy legs
without trying to guilt trip women into making the same choice as you and telling them their choice is a wrong choice.
I don't think women with hair are giving in to oppression or anything like that, I know going bald isn't something every chick wants to do. I feel they deserve the option though. They have it just as women have the option not to shave their legs but in both cases ridicule is bound to happen.
But my way of promoting it is by trying to give insight on why I find it attractive and why it deserves to be accepted as a fashion choice. That's what I'm doing instead of telling you and the other girls to straight up shave your heads and calling you conformist slaves for not wanting to do it. Nor am I telling women they are irrational for having hair and they're not being true to themselves or the cause of feminism if they decide to keep it.
Besides I have a better suggestion. I've told you about rule 34 right? I have a suggestion for you, visit a website called rabbitsreviews.com, look up the table of contents and click on "hairy". You will be intrigued by the results.
Well you don't have to get into porn but if you want to find people who can appreciate your hairy gams, becoming a hairy fetish model could be the way to go.
Something to do part time when you're not busy doing scientist stuff lol.