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Your grandma stumbled onto your baldy porn?  I really need to hear that whole story. How did it happen, what did she find, what did she say to you, and how did you explain it? I really must know. |
Sigh.... How can I do this? Well lets see.
Grandma used to use my computer to play solitaire. And I guess I accidently left one of my files open. They were pictures of a nude bald woman with large breasts.
I didn't know about this until she mentioned it to me once and how I liked "big boobed bald women". It came as a sudden shock to me and I was very embarassed about it. But she just thought it was amusing, she didn't seem concerned about it in anyway. She simply told me "so you're different, so what? At least they're women".
In other words she seemed more relieved that I wasn't g
ay than anything. Hehe.
I told her to keep it a secret. But it slipped out once while she was having a conversation with one of my uncles which he described as "pretty messed up" but in a jovial way so I wasn't offended by that remark. I have no idea how many other people she's told about this.
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And yeah, over 20 years an acomo and wouldn't have it any other way. Probably closer to 25 years. The fascination goes back probably to 1979 and Persis, but I can first recall actually being turned on by images of bald women around 1983. I was about the age when boys usually discover cool new things they can do when they're all alone.
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I am 24 years old now, and I was around 18/19 when this became a sudden interest for me, and around 11/12 when I was first aroused by it, maybe younger than that.
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It is, of course, not an all-consuming obsession, and it certainly is not the only thing that does it for me, which is, I think, what differentiates what you and I call acomophilia from a true paraphilia. True paraphilia could be considered sexual dysfunction, being unable to perform without the aid of your personal kink, whatever it might be. I grew up having the hots for all the same movie and TV stars as everybody else, getting all nervous around the same cute girls at school as everybody else, and hiding the same magazines under my mattress as everybody else. I just had something extra. And although it drove me wild when my wife shaved her head, it was never necessary to us enjoying ourselves before or since.
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Yeah I don't
need it to turn me on but I think of it as an amplifier for my sexual drive, I still can be and often am turned on by attractive women with long hair. But when attractive women shave their heads it kicks things up a notch.
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And it does go the other way. I've seen lots of bald women who were not attractive to me at all, and some who were attractive that I wouldn't have liked for reasons entirely unrelated to their appearance. Sinead O'Connor of the 80s/90s is the example I usually cite. Good looking, bald or closely buzzed, and some of her songs aren't bad, but she was never someone I thought I would have liked at all, so I never took much of an interest in her. Baldness is a turn-on, but it doesn't override everything else.
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Yeah. An ugly woman is gonna be ugly bald, even uglier as it calls more attention to her unsightly features.
I think Sinead is average looking for the most part. She's pretty (at least in her youth) but in a mild and subtle way, she's not one of the bald women I go crazy about. I don't really know what to think of her personally because she's always contradicting herself. Saying she's g
ay and then saying that she's not, pissing on the catholic church and then becoming a priest, wtf.