Say polyamory one more time, Boo.
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Anyways, I agree with what Freebase is saying. I think most women are more attracted by stuff like personality and common interests.
However, we'd still like to be able to look at you without wanting to vomit, and that's a point a lot of "nice guys" miss when they whine about their lack of girlfriends.
I tend to get bored really fast if there's no common ground, too... but everyone gets bored after a while, I'm afraid. :/ And I'm the jealous type, so polyamory/swinging/open relationships would never work for me.