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Originally Posted by ThePhanastasio
Yes, it's certainly best not to say it's a "date" at this point especially. That may also deter her from attempting to put her hands down your pants again, but one can never be sure of such things.
At least then, if you're making it clear, she knows that she's going to have to make a legitimate effort to change. Also, that you've distanced yourself from her previously - well, that probably at least got her thinking about what she's done wrong in the past.
And if she says she's "changed", that may not be the case, but that means she's at least thought about things, and might have an idea of what NOT to do at this point. At least she probably tried - which is better than a lot of people, for sure.
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Your advice is good, though I remember one time we were in bed.
I text someone... she got up, stormed over to the other side of the room and rang her friend for 20 minutes and ignored my existence.
I think it's because I text another girl while I was with her, and she did it to teach me a lesson. I just called her a mentalist
So THAT's the type of girl I'm dealing with, I doubt she's totally got rid of them insecurities but if she's got rid of most of them then who knows? It's certainly worth a drink and a bite to eat, and I can judge her motives etc.